Dear H&B,
The girl I've been seeing for a month or so is pretty goth-looking, which I think is a turn-on. Lately, she's been suggesting we bring witchcraft and black magic into our sex life. At first I didn't care—a few candles and altars made it kind of sexier—but now it's getting a bit weird. And it's got to be that way for her whenever we do it. Is this anything to worry about beyond weirdness and an acquired taste?
Feeling Superstitious
Dear FS,
As long as she’s not sacrificing any animals (and if she even suggests that, call the ASPCA asap), it sounds pretty harmless. Is it weird? Sounds like you’ve already decided it is. I don’t know what’s on her conjuring agenda with the black magic, but apparently it’s not your cup of blood. If your broom-riding honey is truly dedicated to a pagan lifestyle, I’m not sure why you’re with her in the first place. Well, I take that back—I guess the first place would be the turn-on you mentioned. But that spooky, titillating experience has a shelf life if you’re not equally interested. Just remember, she can’t turn you into a zombie unless you believe she can.
Dying to get some? (Sex advice, that is.)
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