Hot & Bothered: playing dress up

Dear H&B,
How do I get my straight arrow guy to loosen up for a little role-playing?
Yee Haw! Giddy UP!

Dear YHGU,
Well, that depends on the kind of role you have in mind. Do you want him adopt a fantasy character? Nancy Drew, Gary Busey, a rabbi—perhaps a combination of all three? Whatever superbly twisted scenario you have in mind, talk to him. Make him comfortable with the idea, assuring him that embarrassment and humiliation are not on your agenda (unless they are, of course). Tell him how much it’ll turn you on, and describe the sensational heights of ecstasy you’ll both reach. You may also want to ease him in with a smaller scenario, Yee Haw. If you want him to act like a Brahman bull in full rut, maybe start with a bit of basic barnyard pawing and grunting. And a few cocktails can’t hurt.   

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